
(Totally had to answer this one first. @ghostly0rigins and I have actually been working on something between Dest and Atix that this covers. :D)
She was more wild and active. Constantly finding something fun to do. Something new to explore. While his nose would rather be buried in a book an being left alone. He was always so passive and quiet compared to her more outgoing nature. Somehow though the two of them had become friends regardless of being near opposites.
Dest would often drag Atix off to see something she found. The two of them connected by their archery and their mothers both being botanists. However she lost touch with him when her parents sent her to Ishgard for a time.
Of course she also had her husband as a childhood friend but he wasn’t nearly as fun to drag about on adventures as Atix had been. He was far less likely to allow her to drag him out into the Twelveswood. An definitely didn’t understand the first thing about archery.
(Thanks! @kibuto)