“My opinion on romance? Well considering I am married… I am not looking for romance. There is no need. I do still enjoy a good romance novel though. Just because I am taken doesn’t mean I can’t watch or read others enjoying their romances. As for my opinion on…” She looks away, cheeks stained pink with blush. “On Sex… My husband and I came to an agreement on that long ago. He doesn’t want to know what I decide to do in our long absences of seeing each other. Sex is just that. Sex. It doesn’t have to have emotions attached to it.”
“Romance? Sex?! Are such questions really necessary?” Lance looks surprised and a bit embarrassed by the question. He sighs softly an scratches his cheek. “I enjoy romancing a partner. Doesn’t everyone want a bit of romance in their lives? As far as the other question…” He takes a deep breath an thinks a moment on how he wants to answer this. “I would not just sleep with anyone. I’m not that sort of man. I want a deeper connection with that person. I want it to be special.”
(Okay this one I’ve been sitting on for a while cause the question itself was confusing me at the time. An going OOC just because I’m not feeling it for answering this IC. I’m answer this before the others in my box just because of how long it’s been in here. Sorry for the delay. ^^; I’m hoping I got myself unconfused on the question. Thanks for the ask @prettyboyantain)
(Her neck and shoulders. Especially with how she sometimes spends hours pouring over books for research.)
(His legs and arms. Always keeping himself ready in unfamiliar situations in case he needs to move to defend or attack as needed.)
(I’m hoping I am understanding number 3 right lol. So forgive me if I’m not. For pronouns for Dest, it would be she/her. She’s bixsexual but still identifies as a female.)
“Oh… Three things that make me anxious? Hmm… Crowded places. I like to meet new people but I prefer the experience to be more… Private. Too many people makes me anxious and I’ll withdraw. Slimy things. I can’t stand the feeling. Like the other night at the FC house when J’siris brought a blue octopus from a fishing contest his sister won. I kept trying to get away from the kitchen but…” Dest narrows her eyes. “Oni dragged me over an then watched to make sure I wouldn’t leave… For a third… Being a healer. I’m always afraid I’m mess up or do something I shouldn’t. I’ve only a few years of experience under my belt.”
“As far as being in love. I have been. More then once. I still find people who I love. However it depends on the type of love you are asking about. There is more then one way to love a person. If you mean romantically then twice. If you mean something else then more times then I would bother counting. First was my husband. Then there was Leon. In the end I lost Leon to illness and married my childhood friend. Beyond that the other people I love are my friends and family.”
(While Lance is demisexual he still identifies as a male. So it would be he/him.)
“Dragons make me anxious. I’ve watched enough good men and woman die to flame and claw and teeth. But I do not let it stop me. I will not let someone’s death mean nothing. Noble lords and ladies as well. While I can function and behave appropriately, it does not mean I want to be in such situations to begin with. An third… dating. It has been years and I have spent so little time socializing since the fall of Steel Vigil that… I guess I am afraid of making a mistake or pushing for too much. Or causing the person who cares about me to worry because I have gotten so used to being so solitary.”
“Of course I have been in love. But love as a teenager compared to love as an adult… They are different. In the years since I had withdrawn an been married to my duty. The ladies my family tried to force upon me never caught my interests, I am seeing someone now though. I have not said the words yet… A part of me wishes to declare the words yet… I feel now is not quite the time either.”
(`･ω･´) : What does your muse completely gush over?
＿|￣|○ : What situation would your muse give up in?
(｀-´)> : Who does your muse honor the most?
(´；ω；`): What brings your muse into a state of
depression?
ヽ(´ー｀)ﾉ : What calms your muse down?
ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ : What irritates your muse the most?
(＃ﾟДﾟ) : What does your muse do if they’re angry?
（ ´Д｀） : Is your muse loud in bed?
（ ﾟДﾟ） : What does your muse do when surprised?
┐(‘～`；)┌ : When your muse can’t answer something, what
do they do?
（´∀｀） : What could your muse care less about?
（ ´_ゝ`） : Who or what is your muse most indifferent
about?
Σ(゜д゜;) : Is your muse easily scared?
( ﾟヮﾟ) : When is your muse happiest?
キタ━━━(゜∀゜)━━━!!!!! : What does your muse do when
very excited?
⊂二二二（ ＾ω＾）二⊃ : Does your muse like to cuddle?
( ´Д｀)ﾉ(´･ω･`) ﾅﾃﾞﾅﾃﾞ: Does your muse pat others on the
head? If not, do they get pat on their head?
(((( ；ﾟДﾟ))): What is your muse terrified of?
Σ(ﾟДﾟ): What would your muse be most shocked to obtain?
( ﾟдﾟ): What amazes your muse?
(´ー`)y-~~ : Does your muse do any drugs? Smoke?
（ ^_^）o自自o（^_^ ） : How often does your muse drink?
ヽ(´ー`)人(´∇｀)人(`Д´)ノ: How friendly is your muse around new people?
(‘A`) : What does your muse do when they’re alone?
（´-`）.｡oO( … ) : What does your muse think about a lot?
(ﾟДﾟ;≡;ﾟДﾟ): Is your muse impatient?
( ´д)ﾋｿ(´Д｀)ﾋｿ(Д｀ ): Does your muse enjoy gossiping?
（･∀･)つ⑩ : Does your muse enjoy saving or spending money? Or are they indifferent?
(ﾟдﾟ): When your muse didn’t expect something, what do they do?
(ﾟ⊿ﾟ) : Is your muse in denial a lot?
（・∀・） : Does your muse like to tease people?
（・Ａ・） : What does your muse consider to be bad?
(ﾟ∀ﾟ) : If your muse was a drug, what kind would they be?
（ つ Д ｀） : When your muse is sad, what do they do?
♪┏(・o･)┛♪ : Can your muse dance well?
d(*⌒▽⌒*)b : What makes your muse the happiest they could ever be?
(╬ ಠ益ಠ): What infuriates your muse to the point they may kill whatever it is?
(≧ロ≦): Is your muse a screamer in bed?
(ΘεΘ;): How much of a tsundere is your muse?
（‐＾▽＾‐）: What does your muse’s laugh sound like?
┌(；`～,)┐ : What discombobulates your muse?
ε=ε=ε=┌(;*´Д`)ﾉ : How does your muse run?
ヽ(´▽`)/ : What does your muse look like when happy?
ヽ(ｏ`皿′ｏ)ﾉ : Is your muse violent when angry?
Because why not. An cause answering asks is keeping me calm atm. XD
“My childhood was fairly normal and happy. At least in my eyes. I looked up to my father and wanted to be a part of the Gods’ Quiver as he was. My mother was a doting and loving woman who enjoyed Botany though she had once been a healer. My bother was almost a black sheep but I loved him anyways. I always looked out for him, chasing off bullies as needed. I think he hated when I did that. But he was my brother. He just didn’t like being protected by a girl I think. I miss those days.”
“My childhood was fine. I was never close with my brother and sister. Nothing out of the ordinary really. I was taught how to be a proper young man. Though I would rather be outside playing with others at being knights. Eventually I was allowed to as I was expected to serve House Dzemael like my grandfather and father. I was a stubborn child. As soon as I would old enough to choose I picked Haillenarte. Partly to spite my family and partly because I wanted to be respected. I wanted something else for my life then what my family wanted for me. I wanted to make my own choices. Like I said. Stubborn child. But I do not regret a moment of my childhood.”
“I can not really say I had a least favorite. I was good at studying though I never really applied myself to it before I went to Ishgard to live with my Aunt and Uncle. I had to have something to do to pass the time while stuck there for five years. I didn’t have any friends and didn’t want any at the time.”
“Ugh… Proper Mannerisms. Do you realize how boring it is to learn all the ways of upper class and nobility? I’d much rather be on guard duty in the worst possible location of Coerthas then sit through one more class about the proper way to behave or what silverware is to be used when.”
So Karigan is another alt I have on Balmung. Technically my original alt from 1.0 who I first met my FC’s leader on years ago. She’s been sitting on the back-burner for quite some time after an incident with a player on Balmung getting a little too personal and my lack of an idea of what I wanted for her now that I decided what I wanted out of Destiney. Seemed foolish to have two Scholars. I did finally decide on an idea for her. I just need to finish her profile up sometime here this week while I’m on vacation for my b-day. So I decided to buy her some clothes an take some pictures of my pretty girl. ^^ For the most part though I’m not sure if I’ll actually RP with her on game or not. But she’s definitely up for Tumblr/Skype/Discord stuff. 🙂
(OOC Since this is asking for my opinion of songs that fit. 😀 This was a tough one to answer for Lance. Destiney I sort of already had a song in mind since a few days ago. Thanks for asking @catina-kitska)
(For Destiney in her current point of life it is Human by Manafest. She knows she’s not perfect an that she makes mistakes. The overall feel of the song fits her and her current feelings towards the Order. That despite being human as long as she has the Order she can keep climbing back out of the darkness regardless of her failures because she has come to treasure those among its members.)
(For Lance I was torn. It was really hard to settle on a specific song. But I picked Winter in July by Sarah Brightman. I wanted something with a lighter tone. A lot of my choices in music just does not fit him so this took a good bit of time to even find anything that might work. It was not quite what I was hoping to find but I did find it fitting. Because like in the song Lance is trying to make the best of life as he can without living in the past, hoping everything will work out in time. The title is also sort of ironic being from Ishgard where they would see winter even in the summer.)
Spirit of the Warlock 