Love Language: Destiney

You respond to physical touch  

For
you, love is as simple as a caress. Where ever it happens, how ever
long it lasts or how it is: it could be just holding hands while walking
about, having a quick cuddle once the kids are in bed, stealing a kiss
here and there, exchanging touches while passing each other in the
hallway, and of course making love, particularly in the warming up phase
– body to body, skin against skin… Physical touch is security and
reassurance for you and makes you sure that your partner loves you. On
the contrary, the absence of physical contact hurts you deeply and you
can feel ill treated or rejected and you close down emotionally. But
when your partner communicates in your love language, it touches you
deeply inside, creating strong emotional intimacy that opens you to
yourself and to your partner. Some advice: Every person has his or her
own geography when it comes to bodily touch. Don’t think that touching
them in a way that pleases you will necessarily please them and
vica-versa. It’s important to verbally confirm the touches and caresses
that you like, ‘You know I love it when you hold my hand… ‘I like it
when you brush against me while passing by’ or ‘I adore when you take me
in your arms’. You can invent a couple’s game to make your partner
guess which styles of caress you like and which zones of your body are
more receptive (Getting hotter, getting colder… ) If you are seriously
lacking contact, begin by explaining to your partner how you operate in
sensorial terms and perhaps invited them to find 5 different ways of
physical contact during the day.

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